When do we know he REALLY cares...

When do you know a man cares about you, or even loves you? Is he serious? Or do you feel being messed about? When should we really trust our instincts, and when do we go for it? What if we're wrong and make the wrong turns.. Oh God the things we go through for a bit of romance in our life.

Thankfully, due to a lot of adventures that has happened recently, i really don't know where to start...

When do we know his feelings are genuinely in his heart? You see this question i've been asking.. Does he actually care? Although he seems to be genuine, it's just the history which is backing me away.. Should i be worried? Hmmm.. This isn't going to be easy.
Unfortunately, this generation aren't very open verbally in relationships, men don't understand women want reassuring.. We need to know what you really feel!
Well, although we have history, i fell we're starting fresh, which can always be good.. Can it? So technically i really don't know whether to call him my man or not.. This is all new to me anyways so I'm not sure really what to expect.. It's a new page, in a new book so i guess we'll just take things slow from now. After all, the whole reason things didn't work out in the first place was because of lack of communication.. But that's a whole different story.. Communication has boosted up a lot recently, so i'm taking it we're getting to know each other all over again, which is interesting. 

But this still doesn't answer, how do we know he really cares?

• The way he kisses you, filled with passion (But yet again he could just be an experienced kisser)
  
  
• When he notices your little habits, indication he pays a lot of attention to you indicating he actually cares
  
  
• When a guy wants to spend more time with you, dates out with you at places of your choice and share memorable moments

• When your in need (feel ill, or poorly) and puts you before his friends.. 
  
  
• When he calls you or message you just to chitchat with you, finding any reason to talk to you. (awww)
  
  
• You can make out from a person's eyes. The person in love with you has special shine in his eyes when he's talking to you.

 But you know what? I still don't know? :P
We'll just have to wait to find out.. Maybe if you have any suggestions on how to know.. Please... Let me know !!

Romance in the snow

Who ever mentioned winter was a cold period where everyone suffers being cold lonely or the fortunate ones who actually have another half who take them as serious to keep them warm. Maybe i was confused this whole time, and maybe i hurt myself this whole time. One thing I've learned is to never listen to other people's advice especially when it comes to personal relationships. The relationship should only include you and your partner and nobody have the right to get involved. You never know, what the other person is thinking unless if you communicate, which i think that's what I've lacked in my life.. Just remember It's the communication in between that counts and not around you. No one knows the situation as much as the both of you, and no one really knows whats going on so why risk it when others could really just want to destroy something that is potentially perfect (well for this imperfect world anyway).. Who knows what could happen, goodness knows where things could lead.. but for the meantime i know feelings still exist & this time friends won't get involved.

I've always wanted myself a romance story from a 1950's Audrey Hepburn film.. Maybe here it is <3

Drunken Nights

Having a drink with a couple of friends may sound like innocent fun, especially if your just a social drinker. Fun enough until you wake up the next day and think.. Oh crap -.-

The 7 Types of Drunks..

1. The Sleepy
2. The Huggy
3. The Fighter
4. The Hyperactive
5. The Crying
6. The Deep Conversation
7. The Player 

Which one would you consider yourself? I'm not much of a drinker myself but i think maybe after a recent experience I'm the "Deep Conversation" one.. looool.. Definitely the one who would end up calling people telling them my thoughts and whatever random rubbish comes out of my mind.. Gosh i need to find myself a really understanding great listener who can stand the bulls crap that actually comes in my mouth! Who's interested?

At least i don't do any harm .. I'm all fun fun fun 

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P.S. Sorry to those who ever received an inappropriate call from me,.. But y'all know it's just love <3