It's Time to Say No Without the Guilt

I've seriously had enough with people who think they can just push me around and think they can talk for me. Doing what they want when they want, seeing every opportunity that suits them but only using me to get there.. I'm no doormat you can walk over and wipe your feet clean.. You must be joking! I have decided today is the day when i will learn the lesson of saying... NO!

It's my time to do what i want when i want. Now what i want is to sing MY songs and write MY song and not be forced into singing in YOUR 1980's bull or your over rated punk rock.. that's not jazz and it's definitely not my style.. I precisely told you what i want and you still manage to give me what you want. I don't think i can work with anyone like that and i strongly advise people who feel they are being used in some sort of way similar to the way i have then i truly mean to say to stomp your feet down and do what you want! It's your life and you do what YOU want.. Now it's certainly time i do what i want and do it the way i want to. :) Now thats out i feel much better lol.

Why do we feel so obliged not to stick up for ourselves?


What reason holds you from containing the word "no"? Knowing how to use the word appropriately seems to be easier said by men more than women. (Studies show) Since women are frequently "People pleasers".

To all the women out there.. Don't let people trample all over your boundaries and put a stop to it. You're allowed to say no!!